{"id":12733,"date":"2025-01-27T00:39:19","date_gmt":"2025-01-27T00:39:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/?p=12733"},"modified":"2025-01-27T00:39:19","modified_gmt":"2025-01-27T00:39:19","slug":"my-husband-demanded-we-split-finances-50-50-because-he-got-a-salary-raise-i-agreed-but-on-one-condition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/?p=12733","title":{"rendered":"My Husband Demanded We Split Finances 50\/50 Because He Got a Salary Raise \u2013 I Agreed, but on One Condition"},"content":{"rendered":"<article id=\"post-3658\" class=\"post-3658 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-uncategorized\">\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">James\u2019s salary doubled, and he insisted we split everything 50\/50, even though I worked part-time at his urging. I agreed, but only if we made it official in writing.Years ago, James had convinced me to scale back my career to raise our daughter,<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-1\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1588980\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">but I began feeling left behind. When his promotion came, he demanded a 50\/50 financial split. I agreed, but made sure it was official. used my network to help him get the promotion, then took his position when he was demoted. Our marriage crumbled, and the 50\/50 agreement haunted him during our divorce. I learned true partnership is about support, not equal division.<\/p>\n<div class=\"code-block code-block-2\">\n<div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1588979\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"entry-tags\"><\/div>\n<\/article>\n<div class=\"entry-footer\">\n<div class=\"share-icons\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"author-box clear\"><\/div>\n\n<div style=\"font-size: 0px; height: 0px; line-height: 0px; margin: 0; padding: 0; clear: both;\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>James\u2019s salary doubled, and he insisted we split everything 50\/50, even though I worked part-time at his urging. I agreed, but only if we made it official in writing.Years ago, James had convinced me to scale back my career to raise our daughter, &nbsp; but I began feeling left behind. When his promotion came, he [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":12734,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12733","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/475060248_122187244118090282_1198209595520692697_n.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12733"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12733\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12807,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12733\/revisions\/12807"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/12734"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/otrxio.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}